In my 6th year teaching #leadership #communication #strategies at UCLA Extension Business & Management Programs | UCLAxMGMT, I had another breakthrough last night. I went even deeper explaining my story and my #why since I was teaching my third "C" of a leader: CALLING. And I shared my own calling with my students and why I am so committed to #shine human minds with inspiration and education after losing my father simply to negative thinking and the darkness of the mind...
I know it's so easy for everyone to judge me with my new #shiny name, my #star that I stick on my face and on others faces, my "sometimes extreme" high positive energy, my colorful wigs on stages and therefore not to understand what I am trying to show the world, because they don't know what they don't know about me and my story... And it's my responsibility to let them know.
I need to confess, it took almost 5 years for me to internalize and own my truth so that I could comfortably share it with high level,...
When you see yourself on the cover of one of the most prestigious business magazines in your country... And they feature your success story and your accomplishments in US, how would you feel? Well... That's how I feel. FABULOUS! I make my dreams come true, because I choose to believe in them and my ability to figure things out! Hey my friends, you know what I am gonna do:
I will invite you and insist you to Be-Live in U!
My mom is a teacher. So naturally she taught me a lot. Especially installing me the belief that "I can do better". I remember when I was 10 years old (6th grade), I got 6 out of 10 from my geography class, and of course she freaked out! Being a teacher herself, she expected her kids to do better, right? So she decided to tutor me and teach me geography for weeks, so that I could do better and ideally get 10! So I studied hard with her help and yes, got my 10 next time! And I did so well later on that, I also got selected to represent my school in regional competitions and finished my high school as a valedictorian in my field!
And the best part is I also got the belief and a sense of "confidence" that it's just a matter of having a bigger ambition in life that I could always do better. That belief still is a big component of my mental attitude today. So thank you mommy, Günsel Yalnız Ünsal for shaping my shiny & happy success strategies. It feels fantastic...
Only when you believe, you can achieve!
6 years ago, I was at the top of my career as an Executive, managing over 100 people in 7 countries, I was very successfull but not really fulfilled. I knew I had a bigger potential, I just didn't know what or where to begin. I started searching. And one day, I went to an NLP Training and discovered the power of my mind. That was my wake-up call. So I took action immediately. I left my comfortable life back in Istanbul/Turkey to chase my American Dream. My dream was to find my life's purpose, do what I love, specifically in the city of angels, and live my American Dream! :)
Here are 3 strategies that helped me achieve my American Dream:
1. To be able to have laser focus on what I want
I know it is not easy to have laser focus on what you want, when you don't even know what you want. So the first step is to sit down and have a heart to heart with yourself and get crystal clear about what you are really after in life. To...
We are in February and this month is very well known with its Valentine's Day special :)
So when we are all about valentine's day and the feeling of love, it is a perfect time for us to discuss the topic of LOVE.
Lets start with one simple rule:
“Nothing of lasting and measurable value in life can be created without absolute commitment.”
Think about the elements in chemistry, my favorite ones are sodium and chloride :) They are so in love and so committed to each other forever that together they form their romantic unity that we know as SALT. And they mean business! They are in this unity eternally because they are both committed. Think about we never have a day without the existence of salt in the nature! What a commitment right?
So if it is in the nature and if the cehmical elements can do it, which means we can do it! Then lets do it! Lets commit to our relationships and lets choose LOVE over anything else in this week of valentine's day!
Because we know, the quality...
Your personal power is your ability to take action and create results. This is the cosmic power that you’re born with; it’s already within you! And it can only be utilized through the power of your mind, and the power of your decisions!
So, at some point in life you have to stop evaluating every situation with ins and outs and start doing stuff! Just decide what is the most important thing for you right now, start utilizing your personal power to follow through that decision and watch how fast you will begin to improve the quality of your life!
And also remember, PERSONAL MASTERY is the only path to your Ultimate Lifelong Success and Fulfillment, not dabbling, not stressing nor quitting but mastering yourself! It all comes down to persistent doing, being the name of the game!
And here are 5 steps for you to utilize your personal power:
First of all, I would like to thank you for joining me and welcome you to my Shiny* & Happy :) world of Be-Live in U!
My heart’s purpose is to revolutionize the way we think about ourselves and about the life we live. You might be wondering how will I achieve that, because that is a big audacious statement, I know. But, I have got some real magic in my pocket for you! It’s called NLP! Not only that, I have got other magical mind technologies that I have been learning from the best in the world; like Tony Robbins, Dr. Richard Bandler (the genius behind NLP) and the world's most prestigious institution, Harvard Business School.
And for that purpose, I created Be-Live in U. It was a magical day of 1/1/11 that I created my brand, which was my message that I wanted to share with the world. It was only after 3 NLP trainings and my studies on metaphysics and spirituality that I had changed my life completely from a lost soul in Istanbul/Turkey into a...
In this video, I will talk about how I created my DREAM LIFE by using the magical techniques of NLP and how YOU CAN also do the same!
NLP is the world's number #1 technology of the MIND. It studies the psychology of communication and behaviors. I learned so much about my own communication patterns and the motivations behind my own behaviors with the help of NLP that I couldn't keep it to myself! I wanted to share this MAGIC with the whole world!
YOU ARE MY WORLD! And here is the MAGIC. Enjoy!
Be-Live in U & Let Your Power Shine Out!
XOXO, The Shiny One
When we communicate, we come from our own world. We generalize, distort and delete all kind of information through our knowledge and experiences. And mostly, our wordings are not specific enough in order to understand each other.
However, there are some techniques for preventing these misunderstandings. 6W1H is one of these techniques. It is so simple, yet effective and it helps us to make our lives shinier! So, 6W1H is 7 simple questions that we can ask ourselves, and also the others. The questions are:
What is the source?
Following the 6W1H technique, we can always deliver our message correctly, and we can be the Shiny Happy Communication Masters! Also it is important to ask the questions to other people when they communicate, so we can understand their points clearly.
If you believe that effective communication is one of the best tools that you can have, watch How to Bust Any Assumptions and Why? And master your skills to live a shiny happy life!
Coaching is an effective way to develop your potential through the use of creative and thought-provoking techniques. With proper guidance and empowering questions, coaching not only helps you deal with your issues, but also helps finding your direction in life. Coaching also helps you to clarify your needs and wants. Therefore working with a coach is essential for you to explore your inner qualities and let your power shine out! ;)
Plus, we live in a world where problems seem to arrive left and right; therefore, you may forget how to balance your life. And as for everything in life, there is also a formula for creating that balance. Through the help of coaching, you can achieve that balance. When you work with a coach, you learn how to be more aware of your thoughts, beliefs and values and also how to stay positive even during though times! And this would be the beginning of your total positive transformation! Because once you learn all these invisible skills, you will easily...